“Once a woman is married, she changed, when her husband hope she stays the same (sweetness).”
“After he married, he remained the same. However, his wife would like to change (for the better).”
“When you get married, love your husband, just a little, but understand much about him.”
Three statements that are at the core of this article. Men and women are so different, so without knowledge and a clear understanding of the differences, arguably it is very unlikely to be able to understand each other.
When we decide to accept the proposal of our lovers, remember that what our current partner, then like that too someday. Women often fooled by thinking heroics that their partner will change by themselves after getting married.
When the courtship less responsible, then later when he married, husband will be more responsible. Unfortunately, this beautiful dream does not correspond to the reality. If your current partner is an irresponsible, a drunkard, playboy, wasteful, and others, then he will remain like that after marriage. So, before going any further, it is better we think a thousand times (if necessary a million times) if you want to marry a man like that. Better a poor man than a liar, isn’t it ?!
However, there are also women who would, willingly accept a man like that, a man who clearly has deficiencies which actually difficult tolerated by women. Or perhaps, you are one of the victims of the grandiose dreams that not accomplished it. When married, you expect your husband to change, and when faced with the fact that there is now, you’re disappointed.
Do not retreat or discouragement. When you plunge into the pool marriage, then do not even think to leave the pool. You have to keep living it because it is your first choice. Men just need to be understood and accepted. Rather than bother to change your husband’s character you do not like, you better take another path, pray.
Ask the Lord to change your husband. Please continue to be a good wife. Although perhaps your love has gone, but set yourself to keep respect and understand your husband. And look at the results, your husband is likely to be transformed through your sweet behavior. Your behavior as a wife speak louder than your words. So put on the power of attitude and understanding to gain a better marriage. Remember, the key is on your hand.