If your ex does not want to stay away, then you are the one who must run away from him. Here are some things to to and avoid.
Whether he’s in college or working, you must be away from his office or college. If you and he work / study in the same place, then do everything possible to minimize meet him.
If you used to stop at his favorite cafe, then it is time to find a new cafe. Of course you must be willing not to visit the place for a while, until you and your ex can accept the fact that you all can not together anymore.
Call him because you remember the old romantic story will only give false hope for you and him. He will misunderstand, and he thinks you want to go back with him. Okay, you agree to stay friends with her, but just to call, but wait. It’s a never-ending thing to do if you want to avoid him.
Call from him
Then, what if he called. Not just once or twice, but many times? SMS from him also appears to flood your mobile inbox. If you really do not want to go back to him, then ignore all the SMS and phone.
Email from him
Apparently he knows that he can not reach you by phone and sms, so he went to email. Just like facing phone and SMS, you should not respond to email. If the email from him continues to flow profusely, even to disturb your peace, then put in the spam list.
Chatting with him
Internet technology is much more sophisticated than it used to be. One of the media that is often used lately is via chat. If he invites you to chat via messenger, then get offline in front of him. Do not read or reply IM.
When deciding to drive your ex shadow to get out of your life, then you should also stay away from his friends. What his friends say can make you unstable. If you have to meet with one of them, then you just say hello, but avoid to talk about your ex.
You may be tempted to find out the situation after the word ends. Does he already have another? Is he okay? If so then just ask his friend, through your trusted friend. Never drop by or pass in front of his house. He may catch you as he passes by and thinks otherwise.
There must be certain roads that your ex used to pass, whether he goes to work, or when he wants to hang out. If you do not want to meet him, of course you are advised to pass another way. Then, what if you meet by accident? Greet friendly, but do not look into his eyes for long. The impact of looking at each other can revive the wonderful memories of the past that you really want to forget.
You can get rid of memories about your ex who may be sticking to your heart by going on holiday and disappearing for a few days. When you come back, your heart and mind are fresher and ready to start a new life without him. The most extreme thing to do when the former really becomes uncontrollable is to move. Find a new home, a new city, a new job, a new campus, it could be the only way to stop the ‘inverse’ terror that he might do to you.