Man, a mysterious figure that is unpredictable and makes you always curious. Sometimes we are confused to translate what he wants, especially if he is silent a thousand languages. Do you also feel the same way?
Actually, men are creatures more simple than women. Their minds are simple enough and uncomplicated. They prefer the practical and not convoluted, but it actually makes us, the women are often confused with his behavior. Our mistakes always think from our side. If you want to know what’s on their mind, try reading this article.
I love you
If you often say love words to him, and he just replied with or did not reply, do not get angry first. This does not mean he does not like or love you, but he is already designed to keep and hide his feelings of love, even if he is married to you. They prefer to manifest feelings through action, not just words. So, you have to understand if they do not always send a short message with ‘I love you’ to you.
A man is a selfish person
All women know that men are selfish beings. However, almost all men deny it! Most of them feel that they care enough and care about you. Their selfishness is done first because they feel the need to protect themselves. They are actually fragile creatures that are easily hurt, even more crybaby than you. Try to understand them more deeply. But that does not mean you also have to give up any time when he is selfish to you. Give understanding and discuss this with him, especially when he is calm and ready to discuss.
You got used to tell him when you go somewhere with your best friend or your family. In fact, you always routinely report to him, events or anyone you meet that day. One side he is happy, because you feel you keep his trust, but on the other side he is also burdened because it means he is not free. In his mind, he thinks that if he is hanging out with his friend, then he should also make the same report to you, of course it is boring and annoying. Give him more space. Do not make him report every detail of things while he is hanging out with his friends, including where he goes.
To be alone
Every day, he will take you and pick you up wherever you go. And it is a duty that should not be broken if you suddenly want to change the location, and ask him to accompany you every second and time. Remember, even he also wants to have his own time like you.
The quarrel with you
When he fights with you just because of an SMS problem or a late pick up, he hopes to get away from that spot. So he does not have to see you cry, you scowl, or listen to all the chatter from your lips. Indeed, it’s all he hated the most. For that he always tried to avoid the quarrels and choose to stroll away.
He also wants to exchange roles
For you, the man is a tough figure, protective, must be more active than women. But after all he is human, just like you. He sometimes wants to be pampered, protected and cared for. He also wants to tell stories and cry in your lap, he wants you to defend and make him feel very protected, and he also wants you to pay the bills for dinner. He wants to share and sit in the same position with you.
What else can he hide from you? You are smart enough to understand him, because they are simple beings that need to be loved by you.