Lately you are being diligent to go online. Especially since you met him through the virtual world. He is so captivating that it makes your online moments happy. Now it’s time for you to decide on a date, in the real world. You must keep in mind to take care of yourself, however, your idol is still a stranger you’ve never met. So watch carefully, below are some important tips so you do not lose if virtual man deceive you.
Do not tell your address
Do not let someone you just met in cyberspace pick you up at home. You certainly do not want strangers to know your home, although maybe you and he have often sent each other email, sms, or even call. He remains in the category of foreigners, especially if the picture you have about him is only from his email profile only. So, where is the suitable place for your first date with him? Find a place that is familiar enough to you, and it should be in a public place. If anyone you know, maybe some waiter, or even the owner of the restaurant, this is better, so you can seek help if he does not mean well.
Go by yourself
Self-securing system does not end there. When you decide to meet him on the first date, then go on your own and tell people at home or your friends that you will go to meet.
Do not reveal an important identity
Another key to your security is to keep your personal information private. You do not want a stranger to know everything about you, right? This may include your phone number and where you work. Talk only common thing on a first date, not concerning about your job information. After all, you never asked to reveal all things about you on the first date. Try to find out more about him. Do not be easily hooked with reciprocal relationships, if he opens himself wide for you, then remember that you do not have to do the same.
Do not invite your new date to come home
Just say that your first date with him is so successful and you do find him as good and sweet as you think, but that does not mean then you forget yourself. Make it your own constraint that you will invite him home, if your relationship with him is already in the stage of actually getting to know each other and heading to a more serious level. And, we all know it all takes a while, not enough just on the first date only. This is especially true for those who had never married and had children. Never bring a new date home and introduce them to children, because it is very sensitive for them.
Whether you are a divorcee, or a deceased husband, both remain a traumatic experience for children. You should only introduce your date when it is really in a serious stage.