What we need to know about the difference between men and women is that men live from their dignity or esteem, while women live from love. This explains why the mustache’s creature is hard to apologize. For the man, the word sorry means he failed, while for the woman, dare to apologize it is an honorable act. Therefore, despite feelings of guilt or regret, men rarely express it verbally.
They tend to do special things, such as buying flowers, treating food, or seducing, to ‘pay for’ the guilt. They do not want to be labeled a failure when they apologize. Therefore, we need to be an example for them. If you make a mistake, apologize. Thus they will see that apologizing is not a form of failure, but vice versa.
It may be that men are reluctant to apologize because they do not know they are wrong. Or if they know, they do not realize that you have been hurt because of him. In this case, you must honestly disclose what you feel if he does so. Talk with a soft tone without any frills to judge or blame him, because whoever likes to be blamed or cornered. Remember that your goal is to keep him from repeating the same mistake, rather than looking for his faults and embarrassing him.
Indeed many men who like a big mouth. However, it can easily be learned by any man. Unlike women, men are not very good at talking about what they feel. Therefore, every time when touched on feelings, they will run away because they do not know what to say.
If you know a man who already knows he is guilty, but does nothing to correct his mistake, then he should not be defended. This kind of man is stiff and cold, reluctant to apologize because he does not want to be blamed and responsible for what he has done. Do you want to live with this kind of selfish man ?!
Once we know some of the reasons that make a man silent about apologizing, then one more thing we need to remember is do not force them to apologize. A man who is forced to apologize will blame you because he feels his pride is being threatened.
Instead, approach him gently. Apologize first for your negative reaction to him, and just state your feelings and objections to his attitude. If you soften, he will also soften. If you are humble, then he will feel flattered and more willing to admit his mistake because he knows that you will not look at one eye if he apologizes. Men also need to feel safe, just like you.