It’s been a long time if communication becomes a very important thing in a relationship. Without good communication, you and your partner will find it difficult to work together in this love affair. However, not many people understand how communication with a partner should be. This interaction is not just ask what’s up, what are you doing and where. More than that, it relates to the way you and he communicate with each other.
The following is a mistake that couples often make in communicating and becoming a disease that undermines your relationship and him.
Not Saying the Truth
Do you know? A small lie can sow viruses of suspicion without you even knowing it. Successfully lying once, will make you think to lie the second time. And so on until you unknowingly become a habit. When you ask for a relationship of mutual trust, then do not corrupt his trust even with a simple little lie or cover up a truth you ought to have said.
Stop Being a Listener
Many relationships end because many people want to be righteous and to be heard and not to be happy with their partner. That’s one of the messages conveyed by love-affair expert, Virginia Clark. A common misconception is to judge a partner and blame them. When you want a romantic relationship, then do not get tired to appreciate your partner. Do not stop hearing when you want to be heard. Listening to each other will bring you in balance. That way you can introspect each other instead of convincing who is right and who is wrong.
Everyone grows in their ‘maturing’ culture. There are people who are so open, there is also a very clever in placing themselves when talking. But no one really likes to rant, especially when it comes out of your partner’s mouth. When you say harsh words to your partner, then there is already a hole in the heart that will not be erased and he will not forget. Maybe living in a scold will make you more immune to the talk of each other. But it also keeps you away from true love.
Ladies, do not hesitate to tell the truth to your partner. Do not get tired to listen to each other. Do not apologize if you do make a mistake. Hopefully these tips can make you more wise to communicate with your partner.